Dallas Morning News: Texas teenage amputees find friendship, support on the slopes of Colorado

Dallas Morning News: Texas teenage amputees find friendship, support on the slopes of Colorado

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Diana Lopez was born without a right leg, but she doesn’t let that keep her from having fun. Even when she fell down last year while on her first ski trip to Colorado, the 16-year-old still found a way to enjoy herself.

And the Garland teen is expecting that same excitement this year as she and 13 other young amputees travel back to Winter Park, Colo., for another ski trip.

“You might fall, but you’re going to laugh and get back up,” Lopez said. “And you’re going to have all of your friends right there with you.”

Lopez and the other teenagers left DFW International Airport on Monday for Colorado as part of the 37th annual ski trip organized by Texas Scottish Rite Hospital for Children in Dallas. They will receive one-on-one instruction during the weeklong trip, which is financed by American Airlines, Saint Bernard and other donors.

Henry Ellis, a Texas Scottish Rite orthopedic surgeon, said the trip not only helps the teens face and overcome challenges, but it also connects them with others dealing with similar struggles.

“You find that the kids start feeding off each other and learn how to deal with different parts of their normal daily activities that they never thought they could, and it’s because they had never been around another kid who is an amputee,” said Ellis, who tagged along on the venture. “So they really grow inside, emotionally and mentally, and come up with ways to deal with struggles that they have by talking and learning about it.”

Capt. Jim Dees, Director of Flight with American Airlines, center, talks with Diana Lopez, 16, left, and Alfonso Apodaca, 15, teenage amputee patients from Scottish Rite Hospital, during a ceremony at Dallas-Fort Worth International Airport in DFW Airport, Monday, Feb. 12, 2018.(Jae S. Lee/Staff Photographer)
Capt. Jim Dees, Director of Flight with American Airlines, center, talks with Diana Lopez, 16, left, and Alfonso Apodaca, 15, teenage amputee patients from Scottish Rite Hospital, during a ceremony at Dallas-Fort Worth International Airport in DFW Airport, Monday, Feb. 12, 2018.
(Jae S. Lee/DMN Staff Photographer)

Ellis said many of the teens become friends and continue to keep in touch long after their initial meeting.

‘It’s just really inspiring’

Alfonso Apodaca said he met Lopez on last year’s ski trip and the two have since kept in touch through Snapchat. As he waited at DFW on Monday to board the group’s American Airlines flight, the 15-year-old Bedford youngster said he was excited to make new friends.

That’s vastly different from how he felt this time a year ago. As he prepared for that excursion, the L. D. Bell High School sophomore said he was concerned about going  on a trip with strangers.  But he said it didn’t take him long to get comfortable around the other youngsters.

“It’s definitely a welcomed space,” Apodaca said.  “It’s amazing hearing others stories and how they feel the same way as you, and it’s really great because where I’m from, we don’t have other kids with prosthetics at school. To see other kids feel that way, it’s just really inspiring.”

Cody McCasland, of Keller, Texas, 16, walks into the gate to board an American Airlines jet at  DFW Airport, Monday, Feb. 12, 2018. (Jae S. Lee/Staff Photographer)
Cody McCasland, of Keller, Texas, 16, walks into the gate to board an American Airlines jet at  DFW Airport, Monday, Feb. 12, 2018.
(Jae S. Lee/DMN Staff Photographer)

Olivia Coats, a high school freshman from Austin, will be skiing for the first time this year. Born without the lower part of her right leg, she uses a prosthetic leg to get around.

“She’s been excited about this trip since she was 3 years old,” said her mother, Carissa Smith, who brought her daughter to the airport. “She’s read all about the trip since then.”  

Although she was looking forward to the trip, Coats admitted that she was nervous to go down the snowy slopes.

“I just don’t want to fall and break my face,” the 14-year-old said, laughing.

Cody McCasland of Keller, who is making his second trip to Colorado after initially going in 2016, said he hoped to encourage first-timers like Coats to embrace skiing, even if they may have trouble learning at first.

“You can’t give up after your first fall,” said McCasland, 16. “You have to get up and keep going again. It doesn’t matter how you fall. It matters how you get back up.”

An American Airlines jet carrying 14 teenage amputee patients from Scottish Rite Hospital on a ski trip receives the "shower of affection" on ramp upon departure to Colorado at  DFW Airport, Monday, Feb. 12, 2018. (Jae S. Lee/Staff Photographer)
An American Airlines jet carrying 14 teenage amputee patients from Scottish Rite Hospital on a ski trip receives the “shower of affection” on ramp upon departure to Colorado at  DFW Airport, Monday, Feb. 12, 2018.
(Jae S. Lee/DMN Staff Photographer)

A way to bond

Dr. Tony Herring, another Scottish Rite orthopedic surgeon, said Monday that he never imagined the trips he started in 1981 as a way for teen amputees to have a good time, would help lead to building long-lasting friendships.

“It just sort of happened that kids started talking and telling each other stories,” Herring said.

He said many of those who go on the trips often don’t have anyone else around them who they can share similar experiences with. The ski trips help them bond with others who are dealing with the same situations.

“The kids will start telling stories about things that have happened to them, like how they were playing basketball and their leg came off or what they are challenged with,” he said. “That’s almost more important than the skiing itself.”

WFAA: Ideas that pop: Children’s hospital using popcorn to transform patient experience

WFAA: Ideas that pop: Children’s hospital using popcorn to transform patient experience

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When you walk through the doors or Texas Scottish Rite Hospital for Children the first thing you notice is the buttery smell. 

“My kids think of the movies they don’t think of a hospital,” John Dailey remarked as he walked in with his two daughters.

The girls promptly made a bee line for the popcorn stand and handed over a quarter to volunteer Letecia Desaloms who stays busy filling bags. 

“The smile on a child’s face is what I love. I’ve worked in hospitals my whole life and this place is magic,” Desaloms said.

The girls’ father says one of his girls never runs but on this day she sprinted to the stand. The popcorn was a treat for the girl but seeing his daughter run was the real gift for her dad. 

The popcorn stand started decades ago. Patients, doctors and volunteers say it’s Dallas’ best popcorn and one of the best kept secrets across DFW.

While the snacks are delicious they serve another purpose, to send a subliminal message through smell that the children are somewhere fun. 

“We’ve had stories of children literally thinking they were going to an amusement park when they came here. They didn’t realize it was a hospital until they got older,” said Avery Wyatt who has been working at Scottish Rite for just over a year. 

While the popcorn may be the most delicious detail Scottish Rite is being studied by hospitals across the world for their attention to detail and building designs with patient experience in mind. 

“The architects who designed this build have become world famous for their work on children’s hospitals,” said Tony Herring a current surgeon and Scottish Rite’s former chief of staff.

The orthopedic nonprofit hospital also designed a system to make sure medical equipment is not seen in common and open spaces like hallways or waiting areas. Instead the equipment is kept in a central room that backs up to all exam rooms. Nurses and doctors bring the equipment into exam rooms through a separate door once patients are ready to be seen. 

The hospital also has a large playground out front, strategically placed so patients can see it from their hospital room windows. The park is also open to children who are not being treated at the hospital to make it more inclusive and more about fun. 

“I have worked here since 1975 and there’s no other place like it,” Herring said.

Other psychological designs include wide hallways and lots of big open spaces which the hospital says has been proven to  promote less stress for families. 

And everywhere you go one other thing is constant, that delicious popcorn smell.

“You know you’re here as soon as you take a deep breath,” Dailey said.

The hospital’s volunteers pop 6000 pounds every year and they have no plans on stopping anytime soon.

Amputee Ski Trip Spotlight: Alfonso, age 15 of Bedford

Amputee Ski Trip Spotlight: Alfonso, age 15 of Bedford

Alfonso, age 15 of Bedford, has been treated for hand differences and prosthetic needs at Scottish Rite Hospital since he was five years old. Alfonso dreams of one day becoming an English teacher and his favorite book is Perks of Being a Wallflower. His prosthetist Kara Davis describes him as a “very fun-loving, active kid” and his adventurous spirit is infectious to all who meet him. Alfonso went on the Amputee Ski Trip for the first time in 2017 and is looking forward to seeing friends he made on last year’s trip and making new friends.

About the Annual Amputee Ski Trip

February 2018 will mark the 37th anniversary of the annual Amputee Ski Trip, held each year at the National Sports Center for the Disabled in Winter Park, Colorado. Fourteen teenage patients with limb differences receive practical recreational therapy, while also having the opportunity to grow, build confidence and bond with others similar to them.